Beyond Facebook: The Spirit of Maturity

With spirit’s intent there are no limits…
– Photo by Jan Ketchel

This past week we withdrew from Facebook. We are no longer posting on it. We were always of two minds about using it. We didn’t use it in the way that most people use it, never having engaged in searching for old friends or using it to connect with people we knew.

We used it solely as a platform for our work, sort of as an extension of our website, but even so, we didn’t really like what was behind it. Last week’s testimony by whistleblower Frances Haugen clarified for us the deeper truth about it and underscored our persistent uneasiness.

We offer tools for healing from abuse and trauma. Our intent in sharing our work and our lessons in life has always been to offer what we’ve learned without strings attached, freely given. That is not, nor has it ever been, the intent of Facebook.

After listening to Haugen’s testimony, it became clear to us that the Facebook corporation has been complicit in systematically grooming young children, and even adults, to adopt addictive behaviors that lead to harmful and even damaging mental, physical and spiritual trauma. Though not necessarily malevolent in its intent, Facebook has nonetheless been neglectful in its effort to correct these commercially driven destructive practices.

How could we utilize Facebook and piggyback off it, when we are all about healing? How could we use a platform that has done harm to the innocent? How could we allow our healing work to sit on a platform that doesn’t care about people, only about making more and more money, no matter who falls by the wayside while they do it?

The time had finally come. What we had talked about for months, became the action of the day: remove our energy from Facebook and no longer use it to promote our healing work.

Although our pages, as previously published, still remain accessible, we do not look at them and, at some point, when we feel that everyone who has been used to reading us via Facebook has become familiarized with accessing us directly through our website, we will fully remove them.

Facebook has become the major social network to empower all citizens of the world to connect directly with each other. That in itself is not a bad thing. The byproduct of such access, however, has also entrapped much of the world’s energy in the insatiable need to be liked, what the shamans call the trap of self-importance. Self-importance and insatiable greed have undermined our moral compass.

Recent revelations have clearly exposed the preeminence of algorithms for profit over the common good, as the operating principle for the publicly traded Facebook corporation. From the economic perspective that values maximum profit as a most legitimate goal, Facebook is no different than most corporations. The old axiom, “the business of America is business”, has become anachronistic, driving us, in the extreme, to the brink of destruction.

Our planetary and species survival is contingent upon a way of life that accepts modesty, limitation and equanimity as its guiding principles. The quest for unlimited profit has compromised our moral underpinnings and the common good. We are evolving into a species that must operate from the place of truth and true need to insure our survival on our rapidly changing planet. This, as the new algorithm, places the true needs of the planet and its inhabitants above the profit motive.

What is the alternative? Specific to our decision to leave Facebook we call to the intent that those who would truly benefit from what we have to offer will find their way to our offerings. In fact, this has been the overarching intent that has always controlled the unfolding events of our lives.

The overarching intent of the individual spirits of all human beings is that we mature in this life. This spirit intent is materialized at the center of the subconscious mind, that which naturally attracts to it the physical circumstances necessary to advance its maturity.

The marketing psychologists of the early 20th century discovered and exploited this attractive function in the subconscious, which they infiltrated with advertising suggestions to make a profit. This drove a wedge in the human species, between listening to the guidance of the inner spirit vs the outer promptings of the marketplace, with all its hypnotic suggestions.

Spirit intent never abandoned human life, but the challenge for ego to  trust its guidance has greatly compromised its ability to choose wisely and trust its own heart and mind. Outside approval and likes have become the measure of personal value and has commandeered the direction of intent.

Take back your intent. Refuse the ruse and dependence upon a way of life that places the influence of heartless marketing above the truth of the heart. Trust that placing your intent upon your heart’s truth is all that is necessary to attract to you exactly what you truly need to advance your spirit’s maturity in this life. Advancing in maturity is the real solution to this world’s survival.

May the business of America become the Spirit of Maturity,

Jan and Chuck

Soulbyte for Tuesday October 12, 2021

Find the joy in life, even as you must deal with the pain. Keep an open and calm heart and hope for the best, even in times of the greatest stress. With a calm heart remember to breathe, and allow your body to bring you to the state of calmness that will allow you to be open to receive the gifts of change that are upon you. In calmness find your way and in calmness let yourself be open to receive.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Monday October 11, 2022

Own your life and all your actions. For all of who you are, what you do, and the circumstances you find yourself in are your current challenges for this life. Carry no regrets, resentments or blame but instead figure out how to solve the life you are in to your advantage and advancement, for that is your ultimate purpose, to advance. Do it with love, kindness and compassion for yourself, utilizing the strong intent that is your spirit’s desire. In this manner own your life and your future too.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Friday October 8, 2021

Continue to make decisions that are in alignment with your spirit but also in alignment with your physical body, for if your physical self is not kept in tiptop shape your spirit will have difficulty reaching you. When the needs of your physical self are overpowering, your spirit gets lost in the muck. Keep your whole self in good order, body and spirit, so that there is no lack in communication, activity level, or mental calmness. When in good alignment you will know it by the serenity of your whole body.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Thursday October 7, 2021

With heart centered breathing lift your eyes so that you may clearly find your way. If your mood is down so will be your outlook on life. If your outlook is down so will be your spirit. If your spirit is down you will miss the opportunities that are right before your eyes. Let your heart centered breathing reawaken within you your joy in life, so that your spirit may clearly guide you and show you the way.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne