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Soulbyte for Wednesday June 19, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

In the play of light and dark, in the shadows of the self, find the inner you that calls out for acknowledgement and healing. You are all complicated beings with many sides, many issues and many agendas. Get to know all these sides, issues and agendas so that as they arise and ask for time and attention you are able to give them what they need. Acknowledge them, question them, listen to them, get to fully know them, accept and integrate them. In this manner, reconcile with them so that they do not rule you but still have their place, so that they do not blindside you over and over again but become so known that you see them coming from miles away. In knowing yourself fully and reconciling fully, life will begin to take on a calm, more focused agenda, with truth in the fore and illusion put to rest.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday June 18, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

Hold yourself accountable for decisions and choices rather than blame others. In so doing you take full responsibility for yourself and your life. You learn where you are weak and where you are strong. You test your values and commitments and you find out more about yourself so that you can grow and change. Change that happens because you accept responsibility for yourself is the best there is. It is lasting and deep and usually results in something new and unexpected. Accepting your own faults and turning them into strengths so that you can move forward in life is part of being a responsible human being. Everyone can improve.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Monday June 17, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

Underneath the outer shell of a person lies a vast universe of self, the parts of a person you cannot see or hear, the inner world that is as vast as the night sky, as deep as the ocean, as mysterious as the wind. The inner self holds the secrets to life, the past, present and future, the known and the unknown. Get to know it within yourself more fully as you encounter it each day. Ask it to guide you, to show you what’s important, to help you make decisions. It will not fail you, for it is the you that already knows the outcome of your life and wishes you only the best.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Wednesday June 12, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

When you fully take responsibility for yourself you realize that no one deserves anything, that in fact to deserve is a serious misnomer. Deserving implies that you are owed and no one is owed anything. With life as an evolutionary process there is only the accumulation of knowledge and wisdom, of lessons and actions that lead to learning how to be responsible, to take on responsibilities, to truly and fully take on the life you are in. Rather than feel you deserve anything, look instead with awe at the challenges in your life, and with great wonder accept them as your next chance to gain knowledge and wisdom, to grow and expand, and to fully live, perhaps in a completely new way.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Wednesday June 5, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

Look within each day to address the needs of your inner self, the part of you that really sets the pace and determines the mood for the day. What does this part of you need today? Are you feeling outgoing, energetic and talkative? Or are you feeling in need of solitude, contemplation and quiet time? The inner you can be overridden, but oftentimes it’s better to pay attention so that the needs of that part of the self don’t begin to pile up. Unmet needs of the inner self have a tendency to accumulate,  build up and grow until they erupt in some fashion. Deal with the inner you each day the same way that you deal with the outer you. Give it time to be present, important and directive. You won’t regret it. And you might learn something new about yourself as well!

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne