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Chuck’s Place: Take Control Of The Internal Dialogue For Good

Out with the Negative, In with the Positive…
-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

The subconscious mind never sleeps. How could it, when it runs the physical body, and the energy body as well in its nightly journeys in infinity?

The conscious mind, by contrast, does nod off during sleep, and unless something wakes it into a lucid state while dreaming, it brings but vague downloads back to waking life upon awakening. Those downloads are known as dreams.

Actually, even in waking life the conscious mind can be said to be largely asleep. When driving a car, or performing a routine task, the conscious mind typically turns over the wheel to the subconscious mind that then steers the body and mind via the established programs stored within it, known as habits.

The conscious mind often takes flight into fantasy or thought until called back to task for necessary direction. When not mindfully present, the conscious mind is subject to an internal dialogue that is constantly defining and judging how it sees the world.

This judging activity actually creates the self and the world we live in through the consistency of its judgments and the personal identity it suggests to the subconscious mind.

Thus, for instance, the internal dialogue will deliver feedback every morning about the quality of one’s appearance during a quick or extended view from the mirror. It will remind us of unfavorable issues as it surveys its reflection, likely generating uncomfortable thoughts and feelings about ourselves.

Moving along, there are countless judgments about clothing, food decisions, and news and social media presentations that are categorized by such parameters as safety/threat, like/dislike, good/bad, positive/negative, approach/avoid, relax/get tense. This nonstop background judging function is active every waking moment of the day.

Once a judgment, good or bad, has been assigned by the conscious mind the subconscious mind faithfully codes it as a generalized guide that is then applied to ongoing daily encounters and reinforced by the conscious mind via passive acceptance of the judgments presented by the internal dialogue. The internal dialogue suggests what we think and feel about everything.

This dialogue establishes our true working definition of our identity. It’s how we know ourselves and are recognizable to others. The dialogue is incessantly active in the background of our minds, informing and reinforcing our sense of self. Unless the conscious mind brings its awareness to the directives of this dialogue and introduces a new perspective, this habitual mind runs nonstop, defining our lives.

Shamans covet a state they call inner silence, where the internal dialogue is abruptly halted, as an opportunity to collapse the world held in place by the internal dialogue. At such moments, one becomes privy to truths camouflaged by the internal dialogue, as it constantly generates ordinary reality.

Meditation practices that assign attention to a single focus, such as a word or the breath, accrue, over time, to moments of respite from the internal dialogue in the quiet of inner silence. However, experiences of inner silence and non-ordinary reality are not sustained indefinitely, as navigating our everyday world requires reentering a fixation upon the ordinary state of solid reality.

Quantum reality may be a truer picture of ultimate reality but the discreet physicality of Newtonian physics is crucial to functioning in everyday life. The internal dialogue quickly restores the familiar such-and-such of our consensus ordinary reality.

However, the silver lining of the internal dialogue is its magical ability to construct our world according to what we tell ourselves. It runs on autopilot but we can consciously take charge of the internal dialogue and what we tell ourselves. We can change the suggestions we deliver to the subconscious mind, from negative or habitual to positive and helpful, which are then manifested as the mental, emotional, physical and spiritual circumstances of our lives.

Yes, we can change our minds, even permanently. Mind is the spiritual substance that condenses into physical reality. A changed thought or suggestion rearranges the physical state of our being. This is our magical potential.

We can use our propensity for an internal dialogue to create a new experience of self and world. To achieve this, we must take conscious control of the internal dialogue, for good.

When we volitionally express gratitude, compassion, and loving intentions toward self and others in our internal dialogue, we become the positive being that radiates such qualities. This entails a persevering effort to bring alertness to our ever-active but half-asleep conscious mind, to be mindfully present and positive toward all things.

I am a loving, compassionate being, grateful for everyone, and in awe of everything,

Continue to be well,
Chuck

Soulbyte for Saturday June 27, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

A day of rest is called for again. A day to pull back and put your feet up. A day to retreat from the world outside and delve into getting yourself into a calm and quiet inner space where you can feel good, positive, whole and healthy. All of this is within your own power, for with your very words you can change everything about yourself; your mood, your physical body, your spirit within. With a positive frame of mind, and the words to match it, you can totally change your day.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Saturday June 20, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

In contrast to how loving you can teach yourself to be toward yourself, it can be much harder to feel love for someone else who irks you or does not hold you in high regard, no matter how you try to please them. Sometimes a relationship is over, and facing that truth can be one of the biggest challenges in a lifetime, for when a relationship is over, what comes next? The future can look empty and bleak when viewed from a place of lack. But when viewed from a place of opportunity and luck, the sky’s the limit. Is it time to look at your situation from a new perspective? Where lies the luck? Where lies the opportunity? Where lies the next big adventure? Where lies the bright future? It’s all in the next positive step, the next right choice, the next self-affirming decision you make.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Thursday June 18, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

Once upon a time, you had a dream and perhaps you followed that dream but it was not really what you wanted, but you only discovered that much later. At another time, you might have had another dream that you didn’t follow and for the rest of your life you regretted that. Both of these scenarios can make you feel bad about yourself, but that is not what they are meant to do, they are actually meant to teach you to know yourself better. Through choices and decisions that are made throughout life you are given the opportunity to know yourself at a deeper level and to use those past dream scenarios and outcomes as examples of how to make better choices in the future. Where are you being asked to make a new choice today? And how will you decide what to do so that you have the best and most meaningful outcome that will move you forward in a positive way?

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Saturday June 13, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

Sit in quietude as often as possible as the day unfolds. Call to mind, and body, the relaxation exercises that suit you best. Breathe. Let yourself in on the secret that in this moment you are well, in body, mind and spirit, that you are whole and perfect in this moment. As the day progresses, remind yourself to relax, to breathe, and to just be at peace so that the day unfolds in calmness and peacefulness in your own little world. It’s one of the best things you can do for yourself. To get yourself into a restful, calm and relaxed state of being will reverberate into the world around you and you will greatly affect anyone you come into contact with.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne