Chuck’s Place: When Is It Time To Act?

Time of Waiting,..
-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

Hexagram #29, The Abysmal, has become one of my most instructive hexagrams from the I Ching. How odd to be drawn to the abysmal!

The image is water on top of water. I imagine being stuck at the bottom of a deep well. The water level is low but slowly rising, fed from below.

Instinctively, the hero attempts to climb up the steep walls of the well. Perhaps a couple of attempts are made, but they result in slippage back into the water below. Resurfacing from the unwelcome dive, the hero sees that there’s a place on the wall to hold onto and stay afloat, buoyed by the pressure of the rising water from below.

The realization comes forth to rise with the water as it reaches new levels, finding new places to nestle, in awkward balance with the water pressure from below. Acquiescing to the Tao of water, going with its flow, rather than climbing without support, is the true staircase to eventual freedom.

The water, in its own time, will rise, filling the vacant space in its container of well walls and ultimately move on when it reaches level ground. And when it reaches ground level it is indeed time to act, time to move on.

The Tao is a combination of waiting and acting, yin and yang. When we act we are subject to the karma of our action. Climbing up the well walls resulted in falls into the water and the struggle to get the head back above the water; cause and effect.

Decisions to act are at the level of ego consciousness, which holds the power of choice. Erroneous decisions at this level result in necessary consequences. The question for ego is: What truly is right action?

Often, ego acts precipitously, based upon fear, or opinion, lacking alignment with truth and right action. Even so, these are necessary actions, as one must learn the art of surrender to right action; action in accordance with the truth of the circumstance one is in.

Learning the patience of waiting, which is being receptive to the higher power of the truth of the Tao, conserves ego’s energy to act decisively at the right moment when action is truly required.

Likewise, we may be seized with the impulse to act for what we perceive as a greater good, and act we do, only to discover that it was not the right time nor the right action to take. Ultimately, as mentioned, no action is wrong action, as all actions lead to necessary experience and knowledge.

However, with experience, we begin to realize that there is a deeper dimension of wholeness in motion at all times, with actions best exercised from the perspective of this broader view.

Taking in this broader view, we open to the necessary times of patient waiting, which sometimes means bearing tension until things become clearer, as in my image of the hero waiting patiently in the well. This is alchemy taking place in a sealed container, where necessary actions, sometimes powerfully destructive, must be completed before things can advance to a new level.

Such is the state of the world now, where we are being challenged to bear the tension and to not act precipitously. Have faith in the rising water in the well, that it will eventually rise to the level of freedom, to nourish us all.

In the waiting time, despite all the tension, remain in the calm of knowing that the right time to act will show itself, and when it does, we will act rightly and with precision.

Calm in the knowing,
Chuck

Soulbyte for Tuesday April 21, 2026

It’s never too late for anything. People who stop life at a certain age, or stop doing something because they think it is no longer appropriate have lost their connection to the joys in life, to the possibilities that life always offers, and to their own creative spirit within. Don’t let other people’s ideas or judgments stop you from fully living your life or fulfilling your purpose or your greatest desires. You are a free bird! Always! In thought and in action, take that risk that someone else may not take because they have a judgment. Free yourself a little bit more today, if only in your mind.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Monday April 20, 2026

Keep your focus on the positive, even when it feels like there is little that is positive. You can always find something to be grateful for. You can always find something to express gratitude for. You can always find someone to say thank you to. You can always find some bright thought within that will change how you think, feel and act. Try on a few thanks and feel gratitude for someone or something in your life. A little gratitude goes a long way.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Sunday April 19, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

On some days it’s easier to see clearly than on other days. Just accept what is. It makes no difference how clearly you see with your eyes or your mind if you are in tune with your heart. To see clearly with your heart is a different matter. Tune into your heart more often, especially as the world around you may seem to have gone quite mad and there is little to rely on that is of sane mind. When you tune into your heart, speak to it as if it were the wise connecting link to a greater source; which it actually is. Don’t be afraid of this idea, or shy away from it. With an open heart, and a sense of knowing that there is more than meets the eye, you will more easily begin to turn inward to your heart, and rely upon it more often as the great guide that it is.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Saturday April 18, 2026

-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

Ask for guidance first thing every morning. With an open and trusting heart, with a quiet mind, and with a calm body, wait for words of wisdom to come to you. They may be as simple as, “Take another step forward in that direction.” Or, “Sit a little longer and wait for a sign.” Or, “It is a time of waiting, wait patiently now.” Or, “Keep your loving heart open and receptive.” As we have mentioned already, your open and receptive heart will allow you to be available. And when you are available, you are ready to receive words of wisdom and to act upon them for the greater good of all.

All our love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Chuck Ketchel, LCSWR