Patient waiting calls for detachment from outer events so that when the time of renewal comes all is calm and energetically prepared for an easy birth. New life is naturally preceded by a state of inner silence. Like the seed that eventually bears flowers and fruit, first it must sit calmly in its casing and wait for each stage of emergence. So is it necessary in the lives of the human being to take into account that there will be such times of patient waiting preceding all new stages of growth. Wait patiently in heart-centered knowing that indeed times are always changing, that new life is making headway, and beauty is sure to come again.
Continue to let the heart lead. Let all decisions be guided by heart centered knowing, by the loving tenets of kindness and compassion, by the goodness within you. For to be heart centered and loving is to be a human being of the highest magnitude. Let it be known that love is the way, always. Love is the way.
This being human is a guest house. Every morning is a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness… an unexpected visitor. Welcome and entertain them all. Treat each guest honorably. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond. (Rumi)
Greet each day with equanimity… – Photo by Jan Ketchel
Today will determine the future direction of the world. A polarized electorate officially decides who will govern the country. Clarity may come at once, or take several weeks to determine. The significance of the outcome has taken center stage in the lives of many world citizens.
Equanimity is the ability to remain composed, no matter what fate befalls a person. In Buddhist terms, it means to not attach to an outcome such that one loses composure if one’s preference does not manifest. Full acceptance of what is is the challenge.
In shamanic terms, the challenge is to be impeccable in stating and supporting one’s intent, but equally to have no attachment as to whether or not it manifests. When Jeanne and I took the alternative cancer journey, our sole concern was to impeccably follow the signs that guided us. When it became evident that she would be leaving this world we marveled at the journey we’d taken. Success and failure are an equal set of opposites in the shaman’s world. Regardless of outcome one continues to travel one’s path of heart, without skipping a beat.
Polishing one’s link to equanimity is perhaps the major offering of life in Earth School. Earth is a world that requires attachment to survive, yet insists upon loss of everything at death. To open to love while knowing its temporal limits in human form, is the shadow over every human relationship. To retain one’s love in pure spirit form, as one leaps freely into infinity, is the true graduation from Earth School.
The seeds of reincarnation, or limbo, are one’s non-readiness to allow for what is: the relativity of human form in a physical world. To remain in the illusion that nothing has changed is the consequence of unrelenting attachment to all things physical. Indeed, “what a piece of work is man, how noble in reason, how infinite in faculties… the beauty of the world, the paragon of animals…” (lyrics from Hair). In one form or another, wherever we are, we will remain bound to this world until we arrive at equanimity, the attitudinal ticket to life beyond the body.
Days like today offer the opportunity to get deeply calm and connected to the transcendent dimension of life. Ego is the part of spirit most attached to control in the physical world. Ego has its wants, needs, and expectations. Ego rises in success and sinks in failure. Ego is frequently alienated from its fuller transcendent self and thus invests fully in measuring its worth by its standing in the outside world.
The transcendent self views all experiences of victimhood as opportunities for ego to be in acceptance of all that is, or has been, another definition of equanimity. An ego that has achieved this level of fluidity experiences the constancy of awe, regardless of experience.
Of course, one will have one’s very human reaction to today’s outcome. But, whether it be joy or sorrow, release it in the next exhalation. With equanimity, remain connected to one’s transcendent self, sharing with it this moment in time but being lifted by it to the fuller multidimensionality of life as well.
Finally, let love, the heart of the transcendent self, deliver one to the fullest acceptance of all that life is, with equanimity.
Out of chaos will emerge the calm, out of matter emerges spirit, out of night comes the day. There are two sides to everything. Keep this in mind even as you contend with your own duality. Have patience as things shift and change, for all good takes time and patience, even as love takes time to grow and evolve. Remain in sacred knowing that the human spirit is strong and loving and that eventually goodness will prevail.
Remain attached to the goodness inside you, to the innocence of spirit that tells you that all will be well. Remain attached to that which holds promise for all beings, that all may flourish and grow. That which serves the one but not the many will not prevail, for it lacks the basic necessities; kindness, compassion, and love for all being the most crucial. Let not the troubled times you live in take away your own basic knowing that indeed that which is innocent, decent, respectful, and all-inclusive is not gone or forgotten but surging within you, each and every day, in the love you have to offer from your own heart of innocence. Let it shine and bring you peace, within and without.
