Tag Archives: individuation

Soulbyte for Wednesday March 25, 2020

Change is inevitable. It is the inherent law of nature, that which is in everything, part of life. A warrior knows it, owns it, and yet being fully aware of it and the finality of life, operates as if there is all the time in the world, with a young heart and mind, for that is the only way to cheat change, by constantly roiling against it, by in fact refusing to change in its depleting direction, toward the inevitable end of life. A warrior takes life in the opposite direction, toward more energy, fighting every day to remain viable, alive, and in full control of as much energy as possible. That is the warrior’s way. But at the same time, a warrior knows when it is time to change, time to conserve, time to take a new path, to go in a new direction, and for energy’s sake a warrior takes that new path, and with renewed vigor and intent forges onward, without glancing back, for a warrior knows when it is time to face the inevitable truth and move on.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Friday March 6, 2020

Hold yourself as accountable as you hold others. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions, just as you expect others to be responsible for themselves. Individuation, coming to the fullness of who you truly are, requires that you take on the tasks of life in all forms, including losing your self-importance around being owed anything or being special. It is only through fully owning your own life and what has happened to you as part of the bigger plan to get you to your wholeness that you will truly individuate. Accountability and responsibility lead to fulfillment and fulfillment leads to freedom. And freedom comes not from others but only in freeing the self from its steadfast ideas. Letting go of the known self and discovering the unknown, true self is what freedom is. Stalk freedom.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Thursday March 5, 2020

All beings are but seeds in the beginning, plucked from the greater Universe and planted to become something more, given life, hope, destiny, granted possibility. Circumstances occur and lives are plucked again and again, uprooted, transplanted, things happen to interrupt, to direct or guide a life. Eventually, each being who was once a seed must take control and journey on as an individual, making choices and owning their own journey, without blaming others for their transgressions, acknowledging their own life lived in its totality, no longer a seed but a fully blossomed Self. That is the challenge of life, to fully own it as the meaningful journey that it is, in its totality.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Thursday February 27, 2020

Think for yourself. Clear your mind of its incessant chatter that tells you this and that and listen to your heart for a new and different perspective. Communicate heart-to-heart with the stars for new words of wisdom, to the moon for knowledge, to the universe for direction. Feel your feet upon the ground and know that you exist in body as much as in spirit and yet let your spirit do your thinking now, for the spirit sees things you cannot imagine. With heart-centeredness let each day unfold in a new way now. Sometimes all it takes is a shift in a new direction, but shore that up with a new way of thinking too. Let the heart speak.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday February 25, 2020

Watch your energy, how you spend it and how you earn it. Tiredness, lack of interest, loss of energy are all signs that something is not right. Lack of enthusiasm and joy indicate a tired spirit. Find the means by which to reinvigorate and rejuvenate so that you do not lose sight of the beauty and simplicity that are truly at the crux of energetic satisfaction. The simplest lifestyle may be better than all the riches in the world. Strive for that which feeds your spirit in simple and yet fulfilling ways. Seek quality over quantity.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne