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Chuck’s Place: Simple Guidance For Now From A Personal Experience

Emanations from the Mount…
-Artwork © 2026 Jan Ketchel

I had the great good fortune to attend a heart centered retreat this past weekend at the Monroe Institute’s Robert’s Mountain Retreat, located on a mountaintop, in the former home of Robert Monroe.

The Monroe Institute employs the use of sound technology to facilitate participants reaching brainwave states that open them to experiences of non-ordinary reality, where they may gain clarity, guidance and connection, as well as an ability to journey safely in transpersonal levels of being, beyond the physical body.

Participants are sequestered much of the time in private units, where light is blacked out and they are freed to comfortably lie on their beds, listening through headphones while they take in sounds of different frequencies, often combined with music and verbal guidance and suggestions.

In between exercises, participants gather as a greater group where people may share their experiences. I liken this group component to a shared lucid dream and am amazed to see people’s individual experiences truly become components of a greater separate reality.

To support the sanctity of both individual and group experiences, outside contact is discouraged during programs. However, the nature of my work, as a member of a helping profession, does require that I occasionally open to the outside world during  a program.

Here is guidance I personally received this weekend:

Listen to your dreams: In a dream on the first night of the program, I  found myself, at night, on the shore, near a tenement complex of the Bronx, in New York City. I was interacting with a very elderly woman, who lived in a cottage by the water. She shared intimate information with me. Later, when others came, I freely shared her stories. She, in turn, acted as if she were in deep dementia and had never had a conversation with me at all, casting a huge shadow over the validity of what I said.

I awoke from this dream on Saturday morning to the news of the attacks on Iran. A pervasive sadness overtook me and I was moved to tears. It’s not so much that I was surprised but that I was struck with the deep knowing that the inevitable was unfolding.

I encountered our group facilitator early that morning and shared the news of this outside energy. She suggested holding that energy within and that our process during our program on the mountain might be helpful to the greater world. Her guidance touched, for me, on two principals: containment and the holographic universe.

Containment: In retrospect, my dream had already highlighted the necessity of not sharing outside information at this stage. Of what value would it be to excite the energy of others with the outside information I had received? I was already infected with the impact of knowing and the consequence of deep sadness. What was necessary was a genuine transformation that required a sealed container to achieve.

Water doesn’t boil if you keep lifting the lid. Cakes don’t rise if you keep opening the oven door. Chicks aren’t born if mother hen doesn’t stay put. This is alchemy. Seal the container, let the heat rise, let new life come forth.

Holographic Universe: Michael Talbot’s classic book explores this deeply. When you shine a light on the minutest part of a hologram the entire hologram appears. This metaphor speaks to the human condition: shine a light deep enough on any one of us and the whole of humanity—all of its parts—will be found. We, at a certain level, are all one. Therefore, change the self and that change becomes part of the whole.

Our group facilitator suggested just that: contain the energy, allow for a transformative process that will impact the whole.

Coexist: In the first exercise we did on Saturday morning, we were taken to different levels of consciousness. As I travelled, the intensity of my sadness magnified, until my consciousness was so far beyond my sleeping physical body that I reached a transcendent perspective and landed at peace. The sadness was present, but I achieved being at peace with being sad.

All that is must be loved: This guidance arrived immediately around a question of opening the heart. The heart can’t open if we maintain walls of hate. The heart can’t open if we dissociate. That which is kept separate won’t allow us to love our wholeness.

Love your neighbor as yourself: This goes beyond accepting your disowned projected shadow. This is loving exactly what is, without changing it, without giving it excuses; this is the only way to truly know it.

Sympathy: In one exercise, my consciousness noticed my heart racing, to the point of possible concern. However, I noticed that I was not a participant, that my heart was, of its own choosing, taking the ride of a frequency it had picked up on. I chose not to interfere.

My current mentor, P. P. Quimby, was a 19th-century healer who would sit with a patient and allow his body to feel the exact feeling his patient felt. He called this “being in sympathy”, or same feeling, with his patient. Having the feeling, he then knew the cause, or mental belief, that was made manifest in the physical complaint. If the patient could then take in the truth of their error the physical condition often disappeared.

As my consciousness relaxed with my heart’s sympathetic journey—I believe, with the current outside energy of the world—I came to peace. It is abundantly clear that many errors are manifesting current destruction, but I do know, at a deeper level, that we are in the cosmic season of Kali Yuga, the grand destruction that clears the way for new life, the rising of the Age of Aquarius. This deeper truth transforms the sadness into calm anticipation.

Anchor: In an exercise designed to shift one, on a dime, to heart-centered love and calm, the guidance came to me to use every disturbing thought as an immediate trigger to return to the calm of the heart. This paired association, or neural pathway, is deepened every time we make the shift, sometimes several times a minute!

As our weekend retreat ended, and the messages I received continue to resonate, I express deep gratitude to the Monroe Institute for preserving the core of Robert Monroe’s gifts for journeyers like myself, for his gifts still have relevance today. And I also express deep gratitude for the Monroe Institute’s continued evolving of those gifts, as they take their own journeys with Monroe Sound Science.

My personal and collective journey this past weekend greatly aided my internal process and enabled the simple guidance that I offer in this blog.

With Gratitude for all the gifts we are given,
Chuck

Soulbyte for Tuesday January 30, 2024

-Artwork © 2024 Jan Ketchel

Stability comes from within and is manifested without when that strongly centered stability is allowed to form a life structure that is conducive to growth and evolution. Imagine the world without the structure of nature. In that case, Earth would be a planet devoid of life. Life is what brings structure. The art of living presents possibilities, choices and decisions that in turn produce the structures of a life. That which contains also allows for transformation. Look to constructing containers within your own life that will provide the perfect mix of tension and flexibility to allow you to continually transform. It’s what life is really all about, after all.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Friday September 13, 2019

Remain contained in calm energy, surrounded and imbued with your own calm intent to remain upon your path with heart. Not all paths have heart, though they may be appropriate for a time; the path of duty, the path of caring for others, the path of learning, the path of giving; but even those paths can be imbued with calmness and heart. One’s real path of heart, however, is often an inner experience, the path taken with intent that has no rival; the path of personal certainty, the path one knows is always right, a path of inner bliss. Let your path of heart unfold, one day and one step at a time. Keep your intent strong and focused and all will be well.

Sending you love,

The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday May 28, 2019

The word to remember often throughout this day is containment. Contain your energy; contain your urges and desires so that your energy is not compromised or overextended. Be contented with what is for this day. Go with the flow of it, knowing that its minor inconveniences will soon pass. Remain innerly strong and confident that in the long run all will be well and that the most important thing is to remain calm and contained, innerly and outerly. In fact, this is the best way to be at all times. Practice containment today.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Chuck’s Place: Containment and the Journey of Soul

Stay contained…
– Photo by Jan Ketchel

Last week’s blog culminated with the adjacent image of the dweller contained within the angel, sitting in quiet repose upon a tree stump. The eyes of the angel reflect the agony of the basement dweller, imprisoned within this flighty, heavenly angel, as well as the sadness of the angel, weighted down to Earth by the dweller’s dense energy. Nonetheless, a hint of innocent companionship is felt in their tentative thinking man pose.

This stage of quiet containment reflects the moments in our habitual cycles when we are able to hold within ourselves the dweller’s impulse to action. This action of restraint, nonetheless, generates a condition of great tension within the body.

Inwardly, this is the experience of a combined wild fire and flood, as an electrical charge, called anxiety, races at lightning speed through the central nervous system, accompanied by a clenching vascular action that forces blood to rapidly flush throughout the body. Both the neurological and pulmonary body systems seek immediate discharge from this unbearable tension through physical release, be it through raised voice, aggressive body movement, or outright body flight into spirit, clinically defined as dissociation.

As pictured above, the ego Soul can alternatively choose containment over physical release and, with the support of the angel spirit (SOUL messenger), land in the eye of the body storm, at the heart center, which enables it to hold fast to the knowing that positive transformation will result from this right inaction. Additionally, expansive love is available from this center, enabling greater acceptance of the opposite planes of the self, activated and in conflict in its present struggle.

In a nutshell, the technology employed here is to not take the lid off the pot of water on the stove as the heat rises and reaches the boiling point where energy transitions to a new state, from liquid to gas. In human terms this can be likened to kundalini rising from one chakra to another, opening one up to a new plane of consciousness.

For instance, kundalini rising to the heart chakra opens consciousness to the expanded awareness of a non-egocentric perspective of the world. Rather than the perspective of a willful battle with opposing forces, characteristic of the solar plexus chakra, ego Soul at the heart chakra sees the interconnected value of all things. As well, right action, action in alignment with the high SOUL, becomes obvious and then ego can calmly, from a deep state of detachment, execute appropriate behavior.

The Shamans of Ancient Mexico taught the practice of utilizing the petty tyrants in one’s life to achieve this enlightened state of awareness. Petty tyrants are the people and situations in our lives that trigger our anger in defense of our self-worth. Essentially, these are the people that offend us. Being offended evokes the survival fight reaction at the lower chakras, particularly at the solar plexus.

Although, at a certain period of ego development it is necessary to battle, i.e., confront one’s oppressors, to be frozen at this level leaves one permanently vigilant, tense, and dominated by a negative attitude. Shamans practice refusing release of their instinctual reactions to their petty tyrants. In fact, they allow themselves to be used by their tyrants, which causes the resultant contained emotional energy to rise. As that emotional energy rises it burns through the web of feeling offended at the solar plexus level, while purified awareness rises to the clarity of the heart chakra.

From this detached place of not taking anything personally, Shamans gain clear knowing of right action to subdue the tyrant, not from a place of anger but from objective right action. I’m reminded here of the elderly Aikido master who offers the hostile passenger his seat to most efficiently resolve a tense situation on a crowded train. Another example is the Dalai Lama who admits that one must defend oneself, even perhaps having to shoot someone in defense of one’s life, but all the while holding them in a place of loving compassion.

Gaia teaches us this practice of detachment now, as her own kundalini energy rises in our experience of global warming. Her evolutionary objective is to reshape the Earth, with survival practices emanating from the plane of the heart chakra. At core, Gaia’s intent can be summed up as a release from the Dweller-based economy of survival—that which has mismanaged and exploited Earth’s resources—by moving into a Spirit-based alignment with SOUL. This transition will shift humanity’s primary emotional operating system from fear and vigilance to interconnected knowing and right action, based on the true needs of the planet.

The journey of ego-soul through a lifetime on Earth, ultimately culminates in Soul, as energy body, exiting the physical body at the time of death. The trajectory of that Soul’s journey is to bring its experience and knowledge from its just-lived life home to its greater SOUL in infinity. That continued journey may require many stops at other levels of experience, perhaps even subsequent return trips to Earth to fully solve and release attachment to its former life.

A willingness to fully explore one’s life while here, particularly through the practice of containment, allows kundalini, the active energy of the Soul, to rise and open to a fuller and more fulfilled exploration of life while here, and a more direct journey to SOUL when it’s time for that definitive journey.

Contained and rising,

Chuck