To learn from mistakes made you must be willing to delve into why you made the mistakes to begin with. It is good to move on from mistakes without regrets but far better to understand the self and be able to move on with a better concept of who you are, taking with you new knowledge of the self so that your future may be better understood as well. Know yourself in a deeper way and you will indeed have no regrets.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne
Remain aware of and considerate of others, even as you must care for the self. For it is the unselfish who will, in the end, lead the way, showing what a considerate and caring world really is. Prepare the self for unselfishness by knowing and understanding the self as fully and deeply as possible, in this manner ridding yourself of any hidden agendas or self-serving attitudes that will hinder you from being fully present for the good of all. A heart centered self is truly a caring self.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne
Get to know yourself on the deepest of levels, what it feels like to be in balance, as well as what it feels like to be imbalanced. Both states are important to know and understand so that the things in your life that create imbalance may be curtailed or eliminated and that which creates balance may be nurtured and supported. Staying in balance is a constant daily challenge, especially when things are in turmoil, but knowing the self more fully will certainly aid in keeping in balance, no matter what is causing the turmoil. Self care is an important part of a healthy life, so don’t neglect the self, inside and outside. You do matter—all of you.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne
When the time to act comes, be decisive. Decisiveness comes only through becoming aware of what is right and what is not. Study yourself, know yourself deeply and fully so that when a moment of decision arrives you will immediately know and do what is right, without thinking, without hesitation. Learn who you are and why you are there, alive in this moment and time, so that you may know what matters to you, and especially so that you may find your true path of heart and always know its call. In knowing all that, decision making and right action become second nature and you will have freed up your energy for more important causes.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne
Be who you truly are, but also be prepared to take responsibility for being who you truly are. Know that what you say will affect people and how you say it will affect them even more. So take responsibility for what and how you speak. Keep love in your heart and on your tongue so that all you do, all you say, and all that you are is loving indeed. Be responsible in all ways. But perhaps the biggest and most important responsibility is that to be who you truly are requires being true to yourself. Take responsibility for that!
-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne