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Chuck’s Place: Love it all

Love it all, the dark and the light…
– Photo by Jan Ketchel

If we are truly to understand where we are, we must face the fact that the ego, with its capacity for reason, is the reigning god of now. The notion of an all-powerful god behind the scenes may still hold a sentimental attachment, a hope or belief, but reason reigns as that which gives order to life and the world. I pass no judgment nor support for this fact, I simply state the obvious.

The Christian notion of an all-loving god is the precursor to this god of reason. An all-loving god suggested a fair god, a reasonable god, a forgiving god, a god of order. And though this loving god still embraced the irrational—spirit life—it shed its dark side. Older notions of god, such as Yahweh or Allah, depict a far more bipolar god, a god of love but also a god of rage, a god of chaos. This god showed his dark side, torturing Job and drowning all who missed Noah’s boat.

The current god of reason has lost this ancient bipolar quality. I would submit that the current world crisis reflects the return of the disowned dark side of god, which is now in power, leveling the playing field of reason and order. We are currently facing chaos and the exercise of evil in control.

What I suggest here is that life is bipolar. We are both good and evil. Evil is not simply the absence of good, evil is part of the essence of everything. America has always stood for the highest values of goodness and caring, the most reasonable values on earth. But in so being, as we set out to save the world, we disowned our dark side, which has now visited itself upon us, and the rest of the world, in a caricature of abuse of power, an infantile, instinctual ego lacking reason.

Nonetheless, this startling state of affairs is so attractive and refreshing to the suppressed shadow, or inherent dark side of the populace, that it is lavishly having its day with all its drama and danger. This is the law of compensation: if we embrace one pole of our bipolar being too rigidly, the repressed side will eventually return with a vengeance.

This vengeance of the dark side is so intense that it threatens, like Noah’s flood, to wipe out all the goodness of civilization, in fact all of life itself. This instinctually driven, dominating power drive is completely self-serving, incapable of reasonable sacrifice to ensure a future beyond itself.

Yes, we must judge it; we must attempt to forestall its shortsighted, narcissistic stance that invites apocalypse, but we must also address the issue at its core: reconciling our bipolar being. We are all a composition of light and dark, good and evil, male and female. We must know all sides of ourselves; we must live all sides of ourselves. If we cling to a one-sided ideal of reason, we end up overturned by the irrational, chaotic side of our nature.

When I suggest that love is all, I mean that love includes evil, the dark side. Love can love its evil side. When the Dalai Lama states that yes, he could kill to defend his life, this does not make him hate his attacker. To the contrary, love reigns in that moment for he who must be killed. With the decision to kill, the Dalai Lama reconciles his instinctual, killing, “evil” nature with loving acceptance of all that is, even the ruthless, even the psychopathic.

Our evolving god image, that which we model ourselves upon, must return to its bipolar roots. That is where we are being led now. This is not merely an aberration being acted out on the world stage. That perspective is a hold out of the god of reason. No, what is being abundantly lived now is the breadth and potential of the dark side of humanity.

Of course, we hope that reason and the light side will prevail, but this can only happen if we embrace and find a place for the irrational, instinctual dark side of our beings. This is how each individual currently walking upon this earth is challenged and empowered to steer the course of our world.

Face your dark side, learn to love it. To love does not mean to give it free reign but to respect its knowledge and contribution to our wholeness. To acknowledge and accept our own darkness is the love that will ensure our survival and evolution upon this planet.

Do your part, as I do mine.

Love it all,

Chuck

Soulbyte for Thursday July 6, 2017

Remain open and let love find its way. Though it may seem at times that love is lost, eventually it returns and fills all the places that are empty, for it is as natural as the air you breathe, as fluid as the waters of the oceans, rivers, and streams, as swift as the wind seeking open spaces, open hearts, open minds, seeking always you. Let love in.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday June 20, 2017

It’s not easy to let people stumble, fail, or go into the dark side of life. It’s not easy to stand by and watch, but if you get too attached to helping eventually you end up codependent, exhausted and sick. Efforts to rescue rarely work, but the energetic power of love often works miracles. Use its power as your weapon and your healing balm, but do it so stealthily and quietly, with no personal agenda, that no one knows what you are doing. Without need for reciprocity, bearing the tension, stand by and watch it do its magic. Love is energy. Use it selflessly, asking nothing in return, and eventually, in some form, it will do its magic. Send it freely. Just let it flow!

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Wednesday May 31, 2017

Let the generosity of your spirit find its natural place in your life. Be generous where you can though not to excess. Stay within your means and yet find a natural measure of giving in some meaningful way. Generosity of spirit may not come to you as naturally as it does to others, but it is a habit worth cultivating, for it will open the doors of your heart so that you may experience the true nature of love and a giving heart, for there is no true love without a giving heart.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Monday May 29, 2017

Love, it’s not what you think. Accept it. Embrace it. Let it in. Feel it. Give it. Live it. Let it be. It’s not static, a thing to achieve. It’s alive, a thing to receive, looking for you, roaming the planet like the air you breathe, like the sun you see rising at dawn, like the breeze tickling your cheek. Love, it just is. Be it!

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne