Let bygones be bygones as you move now deliberately into a new phase. You are not incapable of change, merely resistant to it, but that does not have to be your prognosis. Change happens without your say-so. A new phase is happening whether you like it or not. Get in synch with that and embellish it to your advantage. Change is just change, and it happens all the time, but you are the one who can finally notice and take full advantage of it, now.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne