All attempts to change are good. For each forward movement, no matter how small, stirs the energy within and without in incremental ways. Though you may not see it, you are making waves, even as you ponder changing something about the self and how to go about it. But it is in daily renewing of intent and in pointing in a new direction that change gets its energy. So keep going. One day you will notice that something truly has changed.
Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne