Regret is no one’s friend, reluctance an unhelpful bystander, revenge an enemy of the heart. Time passes, things change, you change. What you once wanted so desperately may not be so powerful anymore, so meaningful or necessary. You settle into life wondering what it’s all about in a deeper way, wanting different things, different answers. Everything changes over time and so do you. Step back and really look at yourself. Don’t be surprised at what you see. Don’t fight change. Accept it and glory in the opportunities that life offers every step of your unfolding journey, thankful to live in the most interesting of times, thankful that change has taken place, for you are the picture of life itself, a changed and changing being, the truth that all things do change. Life, it’s all about change! Dare to love it and live it to the fullest, without the 3 R’s of regret, reluctance, and revenge!
The following guidance may not satisfy the anxiety, fears, and anger of the moment, but I am obliged to pass on what I received from my trusted guide of 45 years, the I Ching, when I asked the following question: What is the correct attitude in this coming time of darkness?
Out of the darkness the light will rise again… – Photo by Jan Ketchel
The reading I received was hexagram #54, The Concubine, Making Do. Please be advised that though the hexagrams of the I Ching are archetypes, that is, configurations of energy that remain unchanging, the manifestations or actual representations of the archetypes change with succeeding generations. Thus, the anachronistic notion of a concubine in today’s world represents an unacceptable condition that one is forced to live with. Advice is offered in how best to survive it and have influence in a time of Making Do.
For better or worse, America married Donald Trump on November 8, 2016. The bride of Obama, the progressive populace, has been displaced and relegated to the lowly status of concubine. We all remain part of the same Union, but she/he, who until now enjoyed dominance in governance, must now come to know and be led by the other side. That other side has attained the legitimacy of the White House, and so it stands.
The I Ching does liken this national predicament to a family that houses both a legitimate wife and a concubine. Though both women live in the same home only one has legitimate power. We are at present a nation completely divided in half, but with only one half legitimately represented and in power. Hatred and blame will only further the divide. The overarching principle that is accentuated in hexagram #54 and is key to weathering through the divide is affection. As the I Ching states: “Affection as the essential principle of relatedness is of the greatest importance in all relationships in the world.” We must not forget this most important advice as we enter a new era where affection seems already greatly lacking.
The first moving line of hexagram #54, nine in the first place, offers special counsel stressing the correct decorum for one relegated to a lowly status while nonetheless finding a safe and meaningful place within the nation. The guidance is clear: withdraw modestly into the background, do not attempt to overstep bounds or usurp power that one is not entitled to.
In a second example offered by the I Ching, a man of lowly influence is friends with a prince and is taken into his confidence. This man remains tactfully in the background behind the ministers of state and though hampered by his status, as if he were lame, he is nonetheless able to accomplish something by quietly working behind the scenes.
The key to the guidance here is the checking of hubris, entitlement, and self-importance. If one can tactfully withdraw attention from oneself, one may indeed exert influence. In the shaman’s world this is the exercise of losing self-importance when under the dominance of a petty tyrant. By dropping self-importance, the ego, one is able to accomplish something that ultimately brings down the tyrant.
Nine in the fourth place of hexagram #54 offers additional special guidance, depicting a maiden who refuses an alternative arrangement to a legitimate marriage. Through her patient, virtuous waiting she is rewarded with a late but most fulfilling marriage. The guidance here is patience and containment. Remain inwardly true to your values and ideals though the tension of the time of waiting and the challenges presented over the next four years will be great. In patient acceptance of where things are, but inwardly remaining true to and keeping alit the true light in the heart, we will indeed be rewarded with a new dawn.
Finally, though the I Ching advises that for the present we must “make do” with a highly virulent and volatile predicament, in patience and containment, it stresses that the light will again be restored and reassert its guiding influence over the darkness that now descends upon us. Eventually, it teaches us, the right light will shine again, for the future of this hexagram is Spring: the return of the light.
The I Ching translates as, The Book of Changes, that is, all things must pass, nothing is forever.
A failure to communicate results in chaos. A failure to consider all sides results in anger. A failure to take into account the feelings and needs of others results in bitterness. To be fair is often difficult but to be honest is not, to be kind is not, to be compassionate is not. When the mind does not bring the right answers turn to the heart for counsel. The heart will respond appropriately if given a chance, for the heart never lies.
Bring back the light. Intend kindness. Intend goodness. Intend peacefulness. Intend positive thoughts, energy, and attitudes. Reject hatred. Reject malice. Reject bigotry. Reject negative thoughts, energy, and attitudes. Your own good thoughts, your positive energy, and your fair and balanced approaches to life can change the world. There is no better time than now to prove that love conquers all.
Here is this week’s audio channeling. What is the best way to react to what is happening now? Jeanne suggests that it’s a matter of personal preference, but she also suggests caution. Listen to hear the whole message.
Have a nice week and enjoy that super moon energy!
