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Chuck’s Place: Love Trumps Hate

Aspire to higher bands of love energy…
-Artwork © 2025 Jan Ketchel

“Do not let the sun go down on your wrath.” (Ephesians 4:26-27) In modern terms this simply means, “don’t go to bed angry.” Certainly the calm of good will to all, before sleep, allows the body to release into restful rejuvenation as the mind goes off to dream, in the depths of infinity.

This nightly journey of mind, in its soul body, into the subtler dimensions of life, is full of encounters with the wandering souls of other sleepers in human form, as well as with those in soul states no longer attached to human bodies.

Robert Monroe, in his journeys beyond the body, charted the various bands of energy one can visit on one’s nightly journeys. The band of energy closest to earth Bob designated as the M band field. This energy, though subtler in composition than the physical body, is nonetheless focused upon the passions and desires of life in human form.

Many souls in M band have yet to fully accept their physical death and exist in a limbo state of private dream, a bardo, where their imagination recreates a life in human form, with its attempts to satisfy its physical longings. Souls in this state are dominated by need and are largely unawakened to their true state of being.

When we go to sleep with unsettled thoughts, or hate, our soul launches in a volatile state of energy that is naturally drawn to like-energy in the M band field. Typically, we arrive in M band with very little consciousness and find ourselves interacting with unknown souls with similar torments, either entering into their dreams or co-creating new ones with them.

Sometimes these are the dreams of intense emotion that generate nightmares. Other dreams find their impetus in what Freud called wish fulfillment, in the playing out of suppressed aggressive and sexual impulses.

The upshot of  all these encounters is an unsettling impact upon our waking consciousness, as our soul returns to its physical body. The download of these nefarious engagements typically casts a negative shadow upon the mood and thoughts of the day ahead.

The bands of energy that Bob Monroe mapped in infinity mimic the chakra centers in the physical body. These ascending chakras, from the root, at the base of the spine, to the crown, at the top of the head, reflect the transformational journey of energy from the grossest state, at the root of the spine, to the most refined, at the crown of the head. The journey of energy through these energy centers is the journey from crude passion and narcissism to refined all-inclusive love and oneness.

To achieve the level of refinement at the crown chakra, we must fall in love with life, with equanimity. At the heart center, for instance, we learn to love our enemies as ourselves.  This profound depth of love extends love to those whom are embroiled in hatred. This is how love trumps hate. Whereas hate has no room for love, love includes hate, in all its vitriolic and sadistic forms. Love only wants the best for all, including those whom hate.

When we end our day with detached, loving thoughts, we launch into infinity with our soul body drawn to the higher dimensions of love that reflects our waking thoughts and emotions. Furthermore, we interact with more enlightened souls who can shed their guidance and wisdom upon issues that engage us in waking life. And though we might not fully remember our encounters in infinity, we return deeply calmed, wiser and rejuvenated as we reenter our bodies and take on the day ahead. We enter with love and optimism, and look forward to the gifts to come.

These journeys into the higher bands of infinity also accrue to a growing awareness of the terrain beyond the physical body, where we will one day settle in as we embark upon our definitive journey, into life beyond the physical body at physical death. With increasing lucidity in sleep and waking life our lives are enriched now, as well as then.

The key to richness of life, now and then, is love. The more mature the love, the greater the wholeness and the acceptance that hate is simply a cruder form of love. Welcome its refinement that all might wake up to the overarching reign of love.

Loving intent for all,
Chuck

Soulbyte for Friday March 14, 2025

-Artwork © 2025 Jan Ketchel

Lessons in speaking to the heart and body are endless because the answers are never-ending. There is always something more that you can learn. With attention focused on these two areas— the heart center that guides and protects, that loves and receives, that expresses gratitude and thanks, and the body that enables you to have life, to have experiences, to act and react and to live in the world of animal, mineral, water, air, earth and fire, that allows you to experience all the creature comforts and all the depravations you can want—give yourself time each morning and each evening to go through your expectations and your results.

At the crack of dawn, ask: How am I going to spend the day? What are my intentions? And as you settle in for the night, ask: How did I do today? Did I have a beautiful day? What can I do differently tomorrow? No matter your answers to the questions you choose to ask, begin each day and end each day with love and gratitude for yourself, and ask for your dreams to help you decipher more of what you need to know. You can’t go wrong if you stick with learning and growing with your heart, your body, and your dream guidance.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Thursday March 13, 2025

-Artwork © 2025 Jan Ketchel

As you learn to listen to your heart and your body you will notice how much easier it becomes to tune in and ask, how are we today? What can I do for you today? Tell me what you need and I will listen. As you speak directly to your heart and your body, and begin to ask direct questions, you will be surprised at how often you get direct answers. It’s up to you to pay attention or not. Free choice is also part of being human. You can choose what you want to do at any time of the day or night. Just be aware of what you are doing. Choose with awareness.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Wednesday March 12, 2025

-Artwork © 2025 Jan Ketchel

How does the body speak to you? The body also has its own unique ways of communication. You may feel distress or pain in a certain region of the body, signaling something to be aware of. You may hear gurgling sounds that you will have to decipher. You may feel your blood pressure is too high or your pulse is racing. These are all signs from your body to pay attention, that something needs attention, that perhaps some habit needs to change. You may feel tension, anxiety or chronic stress. These are all signs from your body that changes may be called for in your life. Likewise, feelings of calmness, relaxation, peacefulness signal to you that your body is happy, that it likes what you are doing. Feelings of sadness, tiredness, despair signal that there is emotional disruption happening within the body and that it’s time to get back to those other good feelings of calmness, relaxation, and peacefulness. Over time you will learn that your body is probably talking to you all the time, just as your heart is.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday March 11, 2025

-Artwork © 2025 Jan Ketchel

So how does the heart speak? It will vary from person to person. You might hear your heart speak in words, in pictures, or in abstract symbols. You might hear it reverberate through nature, in the natural world outside of you. You might receive messages from animals, from angels, from those you love and whom love you. You might even hear a direct message, loud and clear, a voice in your head. These are some of the ways that the heart may speak to you. But everyone is unique, and just how your heart speaks to you is also going to be unique. Stay open and available, and gently ask to be guided.

Sending you love,
The Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne