There are variations and degrees of control necessary to successfully navigate life. Too much control leads to inhibitions and lack of participation in life while too little results in one calamity after another. Both can be equally devastating. Moderation and balance in all things, inner and outer, bring life and self into alignment. And then life proceeds along with a compatible and fulfilling steadiness so that no matter what comes to greet you, you are in a good energetic position to deal with it successfully.
-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne