#347 She Chose You As Her Parent

Today, A Reader asks a question.

Dear Jeanne,
I have a daughter who I feel is very empathic and sensitive. I feel the same way sometimes as well. Is there a way to protect us energetically?

Thanks,
Eva

Today, My Dear Eva, I address your question by speaking again of children and the responsibility you have to raise the new children of that world in a different manner, aware of connection to all things and aware of energy. But in so doing, do I speak of all who reside upon that Earth now, for this is a time of awareness building, and it is crucial that not only the children are allowed the freedom of such awareness, but all of you as well.

Find your child, your young daughter, as an energetic being who has come to reside in your presence, eager to learn about life and once again, perhaps for the final time, to live and learn upon that realm. She chose you as her parent and that in itself is significant. This is true of all beings; that they have chosen the parents they were born to for evolutionary purposes.

The reason you chose your own parents is still mysterious to you, I know, but do not dispute me in this statement. For your own growth and evolution are intimately tied to your parental beginnings. As you all look upon who your parents are or were, so do you confront your own reasons for coming into that world. Your parents are your greatest teachers, especially in your earliest years, and even later as you seek resolution of your disputes, conflicts, and charges against them for how they treated you while you were in their care. Understand that now, as the mother of a young child, will you be confronted with your own childhood and your own parent’s methods of rearing, faced with issues of how to do this or that based on your own training from parents who were not as enlightened as you are, My Dear.

But so must you first set aside your anger and sadness at what they perceived was correct action to take in your own young life, and start fresh in your new life as mother. Set to rest your parental images as you do your recapitulation, knowing that your past was necessary to jolt you forward now, to a place of newness so that you might reject the old fashioned ways of an old fashioned world and become a leader in a new world. Your leadership now comes to you in your role as parent.

Wash from your mind, and your mouth, and your body the old words, actions, and deeds of your parents and replace them with nothing yet. Watch your own daughter for signs in how to deal with her in a new world of parenting where nothing is hidden, nothing is false, nothing is taken for granted. In fact, everything that you are learning about the world is that it is a world of wonder, but it was hidden from you, disguised and kept secret, until you were ready for it.

The children of now will not tolerate such divisiveness, such mysterious denial of truth. They are ready to take on the world, in all of its horrors and all of its glories, for they carry a new seed of enlightenment.

You, as parents, are the tenders of those seeds, and it is your job to watch the young sprout into full-fledged energy beings, able to have access to everything they need in order to grow in an evolutionary manner. Would you elect to shield them from what you know as truth? Would you elect to disguise what the world holds, simply because you have fears?

As I mentioned in a previous message (Message #344), is it your biggest challenge to not burden the children of the world with old fears that you hold still within your framework of self. You must free them to walk the Earth fully aware of its challenges and intrigues, but fully alert to its magic as well. You must present life in a balanced manner, so that new generations may carry forth a new pragmatic awareness, knowing of the challenges, but alert to the fact that energetically are they free to explore to their fullest potential.

You wish to protect your daughter, but that is a misleading proposition. For you can no more protect her than you can protect your self. It is only by fully presenting the world to her, by exposing her always to truth that you can offer her access to her own means of navigating life. That is what you, and all who have children, must instill in your own hearts. You are parents so that you will have the opportunity to teach navigational skills to your children, energy beings who are in your care for this lifetime. You must prepare them for their own lives, which they must live without you, as they grow and enter the world.

Prepare them fully by teaching them truthfully how to navigate life, fully aware that they are beings comprised of energy. My Dear Eva, you speak of your daughter’s empathic and sensitive nature, and this you must allow her to hold sacred, for this is her energetic composition. But you must also teach her to recognize resonance in her world, but also must you teach her to recognize dissonance.

To wander the world in an energetic state these days is to be fully present in both worlds of inner self and outer self. Teach her balance of these two selves, awareness of these two selves, and resonance of these two selves. Allow her to find out who she is, over who you think she is or should be. Allow her to find her path separate from your path. Allow her to learn the skills from you, the skills of world navigation, but allow her to step into her own boat at all times, free to try out her newly learned skills, guided by your own knowledge, as you teach her all that she needs to know in order to pilot her boat and truly become the captain of it as well.

These are two different aspects, you know. To be good at navigating is one thing, but to truly be aware, as captain is another. The one who steers the boat is quite good at maneuvering along the waters of life, perhaps good at bypassing trouble, able to skim along at a good pace. But it is the captain who knows what to do and how to do things when crises occur, when life rises up as a big tidal wave, or rocks appear upon the shores, as life presents the possibilities that offer growth and evolutionary progress. To be captain is to be in charge, but in an energetic, evolutionary manner is one fully aware of how the world works, aware of what is necessary now in a changing world, and how best to proceed in life as the old world crumbles and a new world emerges.

That, My Dear Ones, is your challenge, to produce the children who must be fully aware that they have been born during exciting times of change. They are on the cusp of new energy that is asking them to be the forerunners of change, bringing awareness of human evolution in a new manner. It is not their job to perpetuate life upon that Earth, but to carry forth a new message that Earth offers human forms the opportunity to understand energy, how it works, and what it is truly capable of.

You, as parents, are being given the opportunity to nurture these energy beings now, the new generations of awakening spirits, truly eager to hear the messages that you speak, for they already know what you will tell them. You just need to remind them that, yes, they are in human form, but they are first and foremost ENERGY.

So that is how you can protect your daughter. Protect her from the lies and untruths that are spoken all around you. Break the chain of lies, and proclaim a new way of interpreting life and human evolution. Introduce your own newly acquired awareness of life as energy, and allow these new children to fully accept this aspect of themselves. Protect their energy by reminding them constantly that they ARE energy. Bring their awareness to this fact, and in this manner do you protect them from losing contact with this true aspect of self, as you once lost yours.

Allow energy to be the buzzword in your family conversations. Allow your mouths, as parents, to speak only truths to your children. Do not present veils of illusion to them, for there are already far too many, but teach them how to remove the ones they will encounter by maintaining awareness of their energy body, their knowing of themselves as energy and the world around them as energy too.

They will learn by your own example. So show them that you too live a life of energy, unafraid to meet your challenges, preparing always for new life as changes occur, fully mature, the captain of your ship. Show them that you love them; that they are safe in your care, but that you are fully capable of teaching them how the world works, how energy works, and how you your self are living the life you preach about.

Be sure to show them your own evolution. And this must be full-fledged learning, allowing for growth at all times, protecting your own energy by reminding your self that you are comprised of energy, and energy is everything!