Chuck’s Place: Calmness Begins In The Breath

“Digestion begins in the mouth! Digestion begins in the mouth! Digestion begins in the mouth!”

That was Jan’s 5 am recapitulation of a third grade memorization at St. Mary’s, sixty children loudly responding to the question from their teacher-nun, “Where does digestion begin?”

What prompted this discussion was an effort we’ve been making to memorize an affirmation that Robert Monroe had formulated for safe out-of-body travel. It’s been a long time since either of us has taken up the task of memorization! Of course, shortly after that discussion we encountered that affirmation again in our morning reading. A specific portion of it was cited as being essential for out-of-body practitioners to enter a whole new dimension of exploration!

Breathe deeply and stillness will come... - Photo by Jan Ketchel
Breathe deeply and stillness will come…
– Photo by Jan Ketchel

Simultaneously, I was drawn back to Swami Vishnudevananda’s classic book, The Illustrated Book of Yoga, where I remembered having read about the very specific relationship between the breath and the mind. In a nutshell, I’ve come to the distilled proof: You can’t breathe and think at the same time!

Obviously, this “proof” is not completely true. We don’t completely cut off respiration when we think, but concentrated thinking does significantly slow, and sometimes halt, respiration for significant periods of time.

This proof can easily be tested. Take a moment and purposely and intensively focus your attention on any sound in your environment. Notice what happens to your breathing as you do so. My experience is that my breathing slows down or pauses as I concentrate on the sound.

The same relationship with our breath holds true when our mind becomes attached and preoccupied with a thought; breathing slows down or is halted for a period of time. Therefore, if you want to shift yourself away from a burgeoning thought fixation, turn your attention to breathing. Take in a slow deep breath. Do several of these slow deep breaths and you will break the fixation of the mind on its thoughts and feel revitalized within your physical body in the bargain!

As I see it, the mind is a separate body from the physical body. The mind, or mental body, actually resides in the energy body, a body separate and distinct from the physical body. When people say they have been out-of-body during waking life, off daydreaming perhaps, it generally means that their mind, or mental body, had scooted away from the physical body and gone off with the vital energy the body takes in when we breathe, what the yogis call prana. While the mind concentrates, consciously or unconsciously, on its thoughts, the body is shortchanged of its normal intake of oxygen, diminishing the vital energy of life as it is completely monopolized by the mind.

The body is often rigid, constricted, tense and immobile during intense preoccupation with thought. If the body is simultaneously in motion, it operates like a plane without a pilot, subject to collision and injury, much like the Absentminded Professor!

Actually, the mind does often utilize the physical brain when it thinks, which is why overthinking generally causes overheated brain circuits and headaches. The mind does not need the brain to function as is evident in out-of-body exploration when the energy body journeys beyond the body and uses the mind quite naturally to navigate its course. However, we can be in the physical body using the mind/brain connection and still be cut off from, or beyond connection with, the physical body.

Ahhh...fresh as a beautiful bed of flowers! - Photo by Jan Ketchel
Ahhh…fresh as a beautiful bed of flowers!
– Photo by Jan Ketchel

When the mind is intentionally directed to the breath, however, the prana or life energy it has monopolized is dispersed throughout the body, in each conscious breath, reducing the anxious concentration of energy in the mental body, a frequent generator of high anxiety. So, as is highly recommended for all cases of anxiety, breathe and become calm!

And so, taking a tip from Jan’s childhood memory: Calmness begins in the breath! Calmness begins in the breath! Calmness begins in the breath! Perhaps the nuns of St. Mary’s might give that chant their stamp of approval!

Deeply breathing,
Chuck

Soulbyte for Wednesday September 16, 2015

To break with a pattern of behavior, to extricate the self from a situation that is no longer healthy is often a slow and daunting process. There are those who can simply walk away and there are those who must struggle in place, but in both cases the real crux of the issue that one seeks to leave and move on from must still be dealt with. More often than not it is really something embedded deeply inside the self, a hidden fear, idea or insecurity that must itself be extricated from its own hideout and sent on its way.

To hide out from life in fear and insecurity is really only detrimental to the self. In finding out the core issue that keeps happiness at bay, facing it and eradicating it through full exploration of it is most likely the only way to salvation. Do not fear that process, for deep within the self you will also find all the strength, safety and trust you need. Trust yourself enough and you can do anything.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Tuesday September 15, 2015

It is never too late to make a commitment to the self, but it may take more than just stating a decision. Long held thoughts, ideas, judgments and criticisms about the self must be released first if one is to truly allow the self a new experience of life. Life is full of opportunities waiting to be explored. They are always there. Where are you? In going out to meet them be fully aware of what you seek so that it may find you.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Soulbyte for Monday September 14, 2015

Human desire is a longing for wholeness. Few realize this. Addiction is desire for wholeness. To desire, to want, to seek intensely reveals this. But what is wholeness really except the absence of all desire, for nothing in the human world will bring wholeness. True wholeness exists only within the self alone. Emptiness is wholeness. Lack of any desire or need is wholeness. Wholeness is spirit in alignment, freed to be a vital part of life. Seek wholeness not in the world but within, where all lies waiting.

-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne

Chuck Ketchel, LCSWR