If you are intent upon change then you must be the changer. It’s as simple as that. Change comes anyway whether you intend it or not, but positive change must be instituted, tweaked, and set upon its course. Otherwise, the change that comes will be out of your control, like a tremendous thunderstorm that naturally unleashes upon the earth, falling where it may, leaving destruction in its wake.
Institute real and lasting change by your directed intent. Make some decisions and stick with them. Those decisions will one day be your best friends, the only thing that moved you forward into new life. And you will, in all honesty, be able to say that they came from you and your desire for change. Change anything with firm intent. That’s how to do it. Be the agent of change in your own life. You can do it!
-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne