There may be no call for drastic measures. If one is stuck, the simple process of energetic consolidation, thoughtful consideration, and a new plan may be all that is needed. Sometimes the only way to change is to be still, to stay where one is and fully take in and acknowledge the state one is in. To struggle may only sink one in deeper, while to remain contained and use awareness may lead one to a new level.
Planning for change is good, but activating change is better. All beings are capable of figuring out life. Once one has reached adulthood there is no excuse for one’s behavior. Responsibility lies with the individual to take the journey into life. And so, a responsible changing being does not blame or regret but finds instead the means to shoot forward, and sometimes the best way to do that is to simply stay put.