No blame. Finding fault in others, blaming others for your misdeeds, mistakes, and misinterpretations, excusing yourself, gets you nowhere except standing empty-handed, looking around and wondering, where has life gone? For life is the quest to take full responsibility for the self in all matters, a journey to adulthood, maturity, and personal experiences. If you are constantly blaming others then you are shirking your duties to yourself and missing out on your greatest life lessons on your road to freedom. Failure to take responsibility is failure to truly live and learn.
Be your own guru and question yourself as to your true reality and then provide yourself with answers that are mature, responsible, compassionate and most necessary. Be thoroughly honest with yourself too. No blame.
-From the Soul Sisters, Jan & Jeanne